How much change do you need or seek?
I need a certain amount of change in my life, and I’ve worked in an environment for the last six years where people often stay in the same job for decades.
I gave two weeks’ notice at my job on Monday.
I once worked at the same place for eight years, although that job involved promotions, various managers, and several reorganizations. In my current job, I have done the same thing for the same manager for six years. I’ve liked working with her. She hasn’t been perfect, but I’ve felt comfortable with her supervising my work. She’s a literate technologist, and I appreciate her. Now she’s retiring, and I’ve come to see it is also the best time for me to leave.
Even though giving up a secure job brings insecurity, I feel strongly that I did the right thing anyway! I feel exhilarated and insecure, free and scared and adventurous.
I’m excited about the new opportunities I have — to work in a health food store, to work in a garden center, to spend more time with my granddaughter, to catch up on my reading, to devote more time to improving my blogging, maybe travel a bit, take some workshops that intrigue me.
To rediscover my own biorhythms instead of those artificially imposed by an employer’s needs — yippee!
And of course as I’ve mentioned before here, I’m selling my house, planning to downsize into a vintage trailer, and have been accepted into the Academy of Oriental Medicine of Austin with a summer start date.
I am witnessing doors open — like being asked if I’d be interested in teaching an “old men’s” yoga class!
I notice a kind of shedding that accompanies leaving this job. My mind feels sharper and more resourceful. I feel more alive.
I am not who I was six years ago. Dang, but I have done a lot of yoga since then, substituted for my teacher, and finally trained as a teacher.
I’ve taken two levels of NLP training and presented on NLP topics, with plans to do more and some coaching again.
I finally read all the Carlos Castaneda books and discovered some great poets and took up the pennywhistle.
I’ve traveled to Maui twice and discovered West Texas.
I’ve been in and out of relationship a couple of times.
I’ve been a support for my daughter while she’s gone to nursing school.
I’ve been an integral part of my granddaughter’s life.
I’ve worked hard on several health issues with a lot of success.
I’ve made some friends at work and gotten kudos for my work.
And of course, I started meditating and started this blog.
Really, I cannot count all the changes I’ve made while working in this same steady job. The job has made it possible for me to grow and change, and now it seems I’ve outgrown the job.
I’ve come to accept that truly, life is change, that change is the key characteristic of life. I walk towards it now.