I loved this post from the blog Marc and Angel Hack Life: Practical Tips for Productive Living. Every single post on their blog is a list of tips that begins with a number.
Some of my favorite bits of this post, 12 Life Lessons Learned in 12 Years on the Road, are below:
What you do every day is what’s most important. – The difference between who you are and who you want to be, is what you do. You don’t have to be great to get started, but you do have to get started to be great.
You can’t always be agreeable. – That’s how people take advantage of you. You have to set boundaries. Don’t ever change just to impress someone. Change because it makes you a better person and leads you to a better future.
You DON’T want perfect people in your life. – Even though you probably sometimes get confused, you don’t really want your friends and lovers to be perfect. What you do want is people you can trust, who treat you right – people you can act silly with, who love being around you as much as you love being around them.
The truth is always the best choice. – Respect and trust are two of the easiest things in life to lose and the hardest to get back. Never make a big decision when you’re angry, and never make a big promise when you’re overjoyed. Never mess with someone’s feelings just because you’re unsure of yours.
Everyone’s story is more complicated than it seems. – Every passing face on the street represents a story every bit as compelling and complicated as yours. It’s not always the tears that measure a person’s pain, sometimes it’s the smile they fake. Not all scars show. Not all wounds heal by themselves. You usually can’t see the pain that someone feels. Don’t judge a person negatively for their past or feelings without a full understanding of their situation.
You are not alone in being alone. – To lose sleep worrying about a friend. To have trouble picking yourself up after someone lets you down. To feel like less because someone didn’t love you enough to stay. To be afraid to try something new for fear you’ll fail. None of this means you’re dysfunctional or crazy. It just means you’re human, and that you need a little time to right yourself. You are not alone.
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